my top 10 sad songs by women

1. feist - let it die
2. jenny lewis - godspeed
3. sara bareilles - gravity
4. rilo kiley - does he love you?
5. fiona apple - sullen girl
6. esthero - i drive alone
7. feist - now at last
8. linda perhacs - hey, who really cares?
9. regina spektor - summer in the city
10. she & him - sentimental heart

my top 10 songs about love by women

in no particular order...


1. jaymay - you are the only one i love
2. the dø – at last
3. brazilian girls - me gustas cuando callas
4. kate nash - birds
5. ingrid michaelson - the way i am
6. laura marling - new romantic
7. mirah - words cannot describe
8. jolie holland - amen
9. keren ann - one day without
10. suzanne vega- caramel

artist of the week

thought i'd throw another fantastic photographer at you. there are many reasons i love cindy sherman. here are just a few: she's a feminist, her subject is almost always herself, she's a master at transformation using makeup, costume, wigs, etc. , she often gets her inspiration from medieval art, and she shares my struggle and annoyance with the more technical aspects of darkroom photography.









cindy sherman

kiss

my favorite movie kiss. what's your favorite kind of kiss?

how to get free stuff

i consider myself to be a master at getting free things. the amount of beauty products, food, samples, etc. i have received in the last few years has certainly saved me some money and allowed me to try some fantastic new products! i figured it was time to share the wealth (u see wut i did thar) and give you some tips so you can get some freebies too.

• Totally Free Crap great site for getting samples.

• Free Stuff free stuff on lj.

• Free Is Free more freebies on lj.

• Free Stuff Galore yet another place to get free things on lj.

• Walmart Samples walmart's free samples section.

• Beauty Blitz more of a contest but still, enter daily to win beauty products. i already won under eye cream and a heating hair treatment!

• try entering giveaways through magazines. try Lucky, Glamour, Allure. it's worth a shot!

free stuff tips

• create an email address just for freebies. some of the sites tend to send a lot of spam.
• use a fake phone number. you don't want calls at 2am, do you?
• use a fake name if you want..the less information you give out the better. i use one very close to my actual name in case the mailman get's confused.
• if it looks kind of shady, it probably is.
• search free stuff/things/freebies on google. i am sure you will find more free things!

quote

"Loneliness is the human condition. Cultivate it. The way it tunnels into you allows your soul room to grow. Never expect to outgrow loneliness. Never hope to find people who will understand you, someone to fill that space. An intelligent, sensitive person is the exception, the very great exception. If you expect to find people who will understand you, you will grow murderous with disappointment. The best you'll ever do is to understand yourself, know what it is that you want, and not let the cattle stand in your way." - Janet Fitch from the book White Oleander

artist of the week

or er..artists.

robert and shana parkeharrison are two of my favorite photographers. they are married and create dream-like, surrealist photographs. they intend for their photographs to "tell stories of loss, human struggle, and personal exploration within landscapes scarred by technology and over-use." i find that a lot of the images they create are dark and disturbingly thought provoking.






you can see more images from this series here.






you can see their newer color work here.